Wednesday, 2 July 2008

How To Be The Master Of Your Own Destiny

Maybe I'm going to sound a bit sure of myself here, but I know you need a Life Coach, everybody including me does! :-) Everyone needs someone to be on their side, totally supportive and desirous for them to get what they want out of their life.

Best friends can fulfil such a role, but often they don't have the knowledge of how to help and they're too bothered with getting their own stuff sorted out, to be really able to help you.

Those old chestnut questions of who's right, who's wrong, the grey areas are all conjecture and irrelevant. By focusing your attention on you, what it is you want out of your life; what you want to achieve, what you want to be remembered for and your purpose in being here. You can then start to take control and work towards your own goals instead of working for someone else's, which you most surely are doing, if you don't have your own agenda for your life!

Like everybody else I get paid for the work I do and although we all like to think we make some kind of a contribution to society, by helping people to self actualise and to bring out their talents, I believe the Life Coach earns every penny he or she gets!

For example did you know that Adolf Hitler wanted to be an artist? If only his tutor had encouraged him to paint, told him he was good at it instead of telling him he was hopeless at art, we may be admiring the great contribution Hitler had made to the world of art, rather than having to remember the tragedy that was the Third Reich?

You may say you're beyond help, some people tell me that they are! :-) I don't believe them, but if you believe you are beyond help, then I realise for you that's true! I too went through a very negative phase of my life, when I look back it I see it was because I lacked both variety and certainty in my life, didn't feel significant or loved, and I felt that I wasn't growing or making a contribution to society with my life.

If you are willing to see if having a Life Coach could make the huge difference I say it can, please contact me at musiclifecoach@gistli.co.uk to arrange a free confidential one hour Life Coaching session.

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